Healing Relationships

When you enter a relationship you bring to it your hopes for the future and, unknown to most people, you also bring the pain of past relationships. Both of you will do this.

When the two of you quarrel your upset is not only due to the current event, it is also pain of the past coming up to zap you. The present upset is a cue to the mind to bring up similar upset of the past which, then, magnifies the current upset out of proportion. That is when the bond between you starts to loosen.

Seldom does one need psychoanalysis...which is analysis of memory. You really want to purge all painful emotions from your mind. Yoga breathing does that job quite well.

Then, if marriage is the next step, I can perform the wedding ceremony.